Youve probably spent a considerable amount of time studying the female G-spot: How to find it, how to stimulate it and how to turn a woman into putty with a G-spot orgasm. What most men are far less familiar with is their own male G-spot. Thats right; some of you may be surprised to learn that the prostate is, essentially, the male equivalent of a womans G-spot -- and yours is far, far easier to find. We realize that, for some, the idea of exploring this area may be taboo, but if you keep an open mind while reading this article, our advice could lead you to one of the best orgasms you could ever hope for.

Read on as we give you the lowdown on the male G-spot and what it can do for your sex life.

Discovering your G-spot

The male G-spot isnt all that difficult to find, but it does require a little patience. Lying on your back is generally considered to be the most comfortable position for this, so youll probably want to make use of the bed or perhaps a large sofa. The process will be easiest with your legs elevated, which you can do by simply leaning your legs against the wall behind the bed or draping them over the back of the sofa. If youre still having difficulty reaching the perineum from this position, you can lift your backside further by sliding a pillow or two under your bum.

Once youve made yourself as comfortable as possible, start by gently massaging the area surrounding your anus. Most men enjoy having their taint (also known as the perineum) stimulated, and that can certainly be incorporated into this process. Use the soft pad of your index finger while exploring, and be gentle. As you relax further, lube your finger up and let it gently brush across the surface of your anus. Repeat this move several times, each time increasing the pressure slightly. When youre comfortable enough to begin probing, you should keep things slow and gentle, taking care to relax your sphincter during the process. Once youve come in contact with the male G-spot, youll recognize it as a small, chestnut-sized bump situated approximately two inches inward.

Stimulating your G-spot

The first step in stimulating the male G-spot is making oneself comfortable. Bathing beforehand can put a man more at ease with the process, so we recommend starting out with a nice hot shower. If youd like to take that one step further, enemas are not at all uncommon and you may choose to add this to your regimen. Once youre ready for stimulation, there are a number of methods you can utilize, though we recommend keeping it simple if youre a novice; a finger will be sufficient for beginners. Regardless, youll want a good supply of lubrication on hand, and youll want the type specifically created for anal play.

It will take some experimentation to discover what works best for you in terms of stimulation. Return to one of the positions we mentioned earlier (lying on your back with your legs and backside elevated) and repeat the steps you used to located the prostate. As you prepare to stimulate your G-spot, keep in mind that techniques vary greatly. Some men enjoy gentle thrusting movements, and some prefer intense, constant pressure on the prostate itself. You might prefer a mix of the two or something entirely different. The key is to give your body the chance to react and respond; take your time, the orgasm is worth it. Its also important to note that you may not find any of these methods pleasurable during the first exploration, and thats perfectly normal; you can always try again in the future.

techniques and toys

Finger

Weve already mentioned this one, but you shouldnt limit this method to solo exploration. Believe it or not, many women enjoy performing this type of stimulation in the bedroom, particularly when the resulting orgasms can be so powerful. If youd like to try something highly erotic, have her give you a blow job while stimulating your prostate.

G-spot goodie: Brace your hands against the back of a sofa and bend over at a 90-degree angle. Spread your legs apart and have your woman get on her knees in front of you. This will allow her to perform oral sex while still being able to stimulate your prostate.

Rim job

There was a time when most women had no idea what a rim job was -- those days are long past, and most are quite savvy with the technique these days. If youd like to add a little extra ecstasy to your next sex session, bring up the subject of reciprocal rim jobs. Its quite simple, really: When youre both fresh out of the bath, use your tongue to gently probe each others anuses. The sensation is truly incredible and youre both sure to enjoy it.

G-spot goodie: Magnify your orgasms by manually stimulating each other during the rim job; toying with her clitoris should lead to a powerful climax for her, and a well-timed hand job will guarantee your own.

Butt plug

If youd like to combine sex and prostate stimulation, butt plugs are one of the simplest options available on the market. They can be used during blow jobs or actual intercourse. Butt plugs come in a variety of shapes and sizes, so you neednt worry about the experience being painful or uncomfortable; simply choose the size that meets your requirements.

G-spot goodie: If youd like to experience something truly incredible, work your PC muscles while penetrating your woman. This will stimulate the male G-spot further than you could possibly imagine.