ONE of the prerequisites for happily ever after is a man who is decent in the bedroom, who has skills that will enable him to switch between the hardcore or über-romantic when you ask.

The hard part in ensuring that you're not stuck with a 'p**s in bag', is knowing how to discover beforehand -- that is before you invest your heart and time into a relationship -- what the signs are that your prince-charming-in training is a fake.

Guess what? You don't have to worry. Believe us when we tell you that there are ways -- physical signs to look for -- that will tell you whether he's a stud or a dud. And while there are a few men who don't fit the mould, our combined vast experience in the field leads us to be quite definitive about the information below. So get your notepads out, and start checking 'em off.

1. His fingers: If his fingers are long --especially the index fingers, he can manipulate your body in ways you could never imagine! Short fingers? Well, let's say he may have to make up for this in other ways. Also look out for fingernail grooming when picking your guy. A guy with long fingernails isn't too keen on good hygiene, and you surely don't want any surprises in that department!

2. His lips: If his lips are on the larger, juicier side, not only is kissing more fun, but so will other pleasures as well. Thin-lipped men need to work extra hard. But watch out though. A man who is a habitual lip licker is as useful as a man who brags about his prowess -- he'll disappoint.

3. Facial hair: Men with thick moustaches or heavily bearded faces may be able to cure your itch in other ways, but when it comes to kissing and foreplay, things can get uncomfortably scratchy. In fact, while a few women may find facial hair attractive, the Moses look can be rough on the skin and results in discomfort during lovemaking. And no lady wants to give the impression that she spends her nights catfighting.

4. He's a sloppy dresser: If he won't take care of his appearance, then chances are he won't take care when it comes to pleasing you. A sloppy dresser doesn't take time to make a good impression on the world, neither will he take the time to please you. On the other hand, a man who is too spiffy, or who cares too much about mixing and matching will be too self-absorbed to be interested in you or your pleasures.

5. Watch his body language: If he's too timid to meet your eyes, or is shifty and fidgety, then he'll be a fish out of water in bed, and more than likely will have commitment issues. Sure, shy guys can be tigers once they get comfortable with you, but don't confuse shy with shifty.