My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 1/2 months. He is handsome, gives me butterflies when he kisses me, gives me great oral and lots of love. I feel so safe and good with him. He is offering me everything I want at 32 years old - stability, love, support. He is my best friend and wants what I want - marriage and children. The problem? I still think about my ex-lover. In fact, I broke up with my ex-lover FOR my current boyfriend because my ex-lover could not give me the things I wanted and needed emotionally. But he was the best sex I ever had.
I am still in contact with him and I can't seem to get over that attraction and desire to be with him. I love the sex with my ex-lover, but my boyfriend fulfills my emotional needs. I can't describe this attraction for my ex-lover. It was stars and planets when we made love. but he is too "emotionally wrecked" from his divorce to make a commitment to anyone - including me. Which is why I left him for my current boyfriend. I'm not sure what to do. I dont' want to cheat on my boyfriend. But it's also not fair for me to be thinking about my ex-lover when I'm making love to my boyfriend. This is confusing. Advice?
Advice?? People can give you all the advice they want, but it really up to you. Want you want and need.!!!! Its your relationship and no one else's so only you know how you feel.!!!
Advice?? People can give you all the advice they want, but it really up to you. Want you want and need.!!!! Its your relationship and no one else's so only you know how you feel.!!!
So run the new bf then...she is clearly not happy!
JB hit the nail on the head and another thing sex is one of the most important factors in a relationship if it's not good expect your partner to cheat.
JB hit the nail on the head and another thing sex is one of the most important factors in a relationship if it's not good expect your partner to cheat.
What about "grin and bear it"? After all you have made a commitment to this fellow and is this how things will be when she gets married?
JB hit the nail on the head and another thing sex is one of the most important factors in a relationship if it's not good expect your partner to cheat.
What about "grin and bear it"? After all you have made a commitment to this fellow and is this how things will be when she gets married?
-- Edited by MZJ at 20:14, 2009-02-16
Grin and bear it? In today's world ain't no way someone will stay in a relationship n the sex is not good. IT'S NOT HAPPENING!