[Props to Ms. Croll, my co-worker..she build the debate uzeet].

If you are really crazy about your partner, he/she is taking great care of you, the intimacy is great and everything is clicking but he/she happens to be cheating, would you want him/her to tell you? Several young persons in western Jamaica gave their views.

Kurt "Two-spliff" Roberts: There are a few things to take into consideration:
Has she mastered the basic art of self defence?
Who is the sex great for me/her or both?
Is she my personal girl or just one on the side? -Either way One can be crazy about a girl who is someone elses. I guess that while knowing would seem the better choice, it all depends on the type of relationship/understanding that they want/have. If she is my personal girl and cheating, and I dont even have a clue I guess I would deserve it. Other wise, she telling me, would just be a confession to something I already know. Maybe I just couldnt prove it.
To be on the safe side, I try not to let my guards down with naivety. As the good book says put not thy trust in the woman that lay on thy breast.

Trudy "Pie" Willis: What you dont know wont hurt you. Sometimes you have to settle with what you have.

Selena "titi" Ketyl: Well, it would be better to find out from him than from somebody else. I would be livid of course, but in the final analysis, at least he was half a man enough to come clean. On the other hand, the relationship for me would be kaput; I couldnt possibly be with someone who doesnt respect me enough to be faithful.

Camille "BuffBay" Smith: It depends. For instance, if the guy increases his sexual skills prior to cheating, there may be space for comprimising. Ohterwise, no.

Sadikie "Pipsqueek" Ricketts: I would not want to know. I have had previous bad experiences with other girls and once she doesn't tell me im fine with it.