I have been a regular reader of your column and listener of your radio programme. I am having a problem but I am positive you will give me your positive advice. I have been in a relationship with a guy for the past two years. I am 18, in college, and he is 27 and working. I don't have to depend on him for anything, except sexual favours, and I honestly feel secure around him. He has four children and I have none. He got one of his children's mother pregnant again. She was living with him on a temporary basis. Because of family issues she had to move back in with him. I was okay with that because I am not selfish and, if I was her, I would want my babyfather to support me in my times of troubles, even if we weren't in a relationship gain.
I honestly love this man. I am not ugly because I have guys who are dying to be with me, but I can't seem to gain the power and strength to leave him. Could you, please, tell me what to do? I am on the edge of going crazy. Keep up the good work. I think you're an angel in disguise.