I am a 35-year-old mother of seven children and I have been married for three years to a British native. All my children have different fathers, but my problem is that I recently found out that I am pregnant and I don't know who is the father of my unborn child. I have been cheating on my husband with about 12 men. The men include all my children's fathers, my husband's father, my two sisters' husbands, the gardener and the pastor at church. I don't know what my problem is, but I can't stop cheating.
Help me, please, pastor!!
W., Jamaica
Dear W.,
May I suggest that you make an appointment to see a psychologist. Without a doubt you have serious problems. You couldn't be proud of yourself at all. I further suggest that you ask everybody you meet to pray for you. Don't tell them your problem; just tell them that you have an unspoken request. You need a spiritual transformation. Read your Bible and pray everyday and go to church.