a female carries her heart ery-where she goes.. and a man should not be surprised that she catches feelings or gets sprung off the dizzle if he's puttin it down like he's suppose to, because she simply - already has her heart in it!
the key is to know when the one your studyin is in freak mode and when she is in goody goody mode.. that's best of all worlds.. well almost cuz even that will drive a brotha crazy..
I was lucky to find 2 that understood and honored the contract...1 is now married, the other is still around...it goes both ways ...ive seen where dudes are the ones that get attached because she knew what she was doing lol....men run offa instinct...women a driven by emotions..just how it is its never gonna change