1. EYE CONTACT-WELL U DONE KNOW....MAN NUH PREE MAN...BUT EYE CONTACT PROVES HOW TRUSTWORTHY U ARE....IF ITS EVEN STARING AT THE PERSON FOR 3 MINS WHILE TALKING AND SLOWLY TURN UR ATTENTION ELSEWERE.....

2.PLEASANT AND CONFIDENT ATTITUDE.....SMILE SAYS A LOT....IT INDICATED THAT U CAN OPEN TO THE PERSON INNA CONVERSATION...ITS A NATURAL PATTERN THAT PPL ADOPT.

3.BRINGING INPUT INTO CONVERSTION-IF UHAVE A CONVERSATION WITH SOMEONE....TO AVOID THE CONVERSATION FROM DYING...U BRING UP TOPICS...CAN BE LOCAL OR WORLD RELATED.....NUTTIN CONTROVERSIAL...BUT BRING UP TOPICS THAT CAN BRING ACROSS EXCHANGE OF WORDS AND THOUGHTS

4.TEAMWORK IN CONVERSTAION-TRY NOT TO BE TOO LOUD IN UR CONVERSTAION OR TRY  TO LEAD THE GROUP IN UR DISCUSSION....OF COURSE U WILL TAKE THE FLOOR...BUT WHAT HAPPENS WHEN UR POINTS ARE BROUGHT OUT AND THE AIR DIES....NO1 TALKS AND ITS JUST COMPLETE SILENCE....SO TRY NOT TO BE A LEADER INNA CONVERSATION

5.RESPECT SOMEONE'S OPINION-DEPENDING ON OUR EGO'S WE TEND TO LIKE TO "COW DUNG" PPL INNA DISCUSSION......DONT PUSH UR ARGUMENTS DOWN SOMEONE'S THROATS.....UR AGRESSIVENESS INNA CONVERSATION WILL TURN OFF PPL...........THATS WHAT HAPPEN TO BENJAMIN FRANKLIN WHEN HE WAS A BOY....HE USE TO BULLY PPL WITH HIS INTELLECT AND IT FIND THAT HE HAD LESS FRIENDS....SOMEONE HAD TO TELL HIM THAT HE HAS TO DROP IT AND RESPECT THE PERSON'S VIEWS AND THEN HE CAN COUNTER IT....EXAMPLE.."WELL I UNDERSTAND  WHAT UR SAYING, CRIMINALS SHOULDNT BE KILLED, HOWEVER LETS LOOK AT IT FROM THIS VIEW......."

6. BUILD DIFFERENT KIND OF RHYTHMS- TRY TO BUILD UR CONVERSATIONS AT DIFFERENT TONES....THIS POINT MAY BE SERIOUS....NEXT POINT MAY BE HUMOUR.....BUT IT JUST KEEPS THE CONVERSATION FROM GETTING BORING

7.PROJECTION AND CLARITY-DONT MUMBLE OR TALK TOO SOFT WHEN UR HAVING A CONVERSATION......STRAINING TO LISTEN SOMEONE BECOMES TIRESOME AND BORING......U HAVE PPL WITH SPEECH PROBLEMS SUCH AS STUTTER(STAMMA) OR TALKING FAST.....BUT SPEECH TRAINING WILL IMPROVE IT AFTER A WHILE

8. BRING UP SIMPLE TOPICS-IF U TRYING TO MASTER OF GETTING SOMEONE'S ATTENTION...IS ACTUALLY SIMPLE....IF YOUR AT A PARTY OR SEMINAR BRING UP SOMETHING ABOUT THE SCENERY......ABOUT THE CROWD....DONT BRING UP TOPICS ABOUT PLANETS AND GOD.....DEPENDING ON THE INDIVIDUAL....IF ITS SOMEONE SMART...THEN U CAN THROW IN A FEW A THOSE

9.READ SOMEONE'S ENERGY USIING UR SENSES-USE UR EYES AND UR EARS TO SHOW IF SOMEONE IS INTERESTED IN UR CONVERSATION.....IS SOMEONE STARTS LOOKING LAZY AND YAWNING....IT PROVES THAT WHAT UR SAYING IS NOT POTENT...UR BORING.....THATS WHEN U HAVE TO CHANGE UR RHYTHM....IT DEPENDS ON THE ENVIRONMENT.......IF ITS A GIRL INNA PARK OR LIBARARY....UR APPROACH WUD HAVE TO  BE SINCERE.....ACTUALLY U CANT USE THIS IN A PARTY ENVIRONMENT....U WUD HAVE TO BRING UR ENERGY UP A NOTCH

10.HUMOUR-DIFFERENT LEVELS OF JOKES.....THIS IS THE MOST DIFFICULT POINT...NOT ALL OF US ARE HUMOROUS.....JOKES TEND TO BE CORNY OR TOO BRAINY......DEPEDINING ON THE PERSON UR TALKING TO ......STARTING OFF WITH A RUDE SEX JOKE IS A NO NO....SOMETHING SIMPLE.....JUST TO OPEN THEIR MINDS AND ADD VALUE TO THE CONVERSATION



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