The way Jamaican men see it... Although her husband had been slipping in and out of a coma for several months, his wife stayed by his bedside every single day. When he finally came to, he motioned for her to come closer. As she sat on the bed beside him he said...
'Yu know yu' deh wid mi through all the bad times.
When mi get fired, yu comfort mi.
Wen mi went bankrupt and lost mi business, yu stood by mi side.
Wen mi get shot, yu deh by mi side.
Wen wi lost the house, yu support mi.
Even though mi health started failing, yu still by mi side...