Dear Pastor,

I'm a 24-year-old woman who has a man who's 29 years old. He's a dancer. He travels and performs in New York, Canada, etc. However, I met him in Jamaica while I was on vacation. It has been two months. Anyway, I care about him. I have deep feelings for him. He told me the second time I met him that if I was serious, he would be serious. Since then, I have been showing him that I'm serious and up to now, he has not shown me that he is serious.

Everytime I call him, he's busy. He's either doing something or he's about to do something. Honestly, I get so frustrated and upset because he tells me that he loves me and I'm his woman, yet he doesn't find time for me when I call him. Furthermore, I know he has other women, but he denies having any. He's a popular dancer and he has three kids. He tours a lot. I know that he has to have someone in one of those countries. Pastor, please help me. I need your fatherly advice. I need to know if he cares for me.

R., Toronto, Canada.