wait dey, 10 kids before our marriage or during our marriage?
if a during... gosh know mi woulda haffi lef, i'm hell-bent on working things out, believe me, but 10... during.... no sah, mi not even a pack up mi clothes them, just a walk straight out and dont look back
if its before the marriage, well there's nothing that i can really do, obviously it didnt affect us for 8 years so no need to call world war 3 on that one. It would hurt a bit though, finding it out after so long