I have a problem and I hope you can give me some good advice about what to do. I have a son with a guy whom I love so much, but we have a big problem. His mother is always in our business. She can tell when we have sex and when we don't. If I leave to go anywhere, she would call her son and tell him that I am gone to look man when she doesn't know where I went. These things caused him to tell me it's over between us which I didn't want, but it happened.

Anyway, I went to visit my mother in another country where I met another guy. He really loves me. We started dating and recently he asked me to marry him. I told him that I have to think about it. I told him that because I still love my baby father. I do love this guy, but I don't know what to do.

Pastor, please, I need your help please.

K. K., Clarendon, Jamaica

Dear K.K.,