I am a 19-year-old young man who recently left Jamaica to come to the United States to live with my dad. When I just got here things got off to a great start, I received a respectable job in less than two months and even bought a car. After a couple of months, I met a half sister of mine who I've known as my so-called sister, because it was in question whether or not she is my father's child.

We look nothing alike, but we have so much in common in terms of what we like or dislike. So we went out had drinks, lots of fun and I've been with her sexually. From that I don't look at her as my sister and I can't. If I try, it feels like I am going to die.

Please help me because sometimes I feel like I going crazy over her. I know I love her more than I ever love any other girl and did things for her that I've never done for any other girl. She tells me the feeling is mutual.

Please pray for me and tell me there is a way to work this out. Because when family members try to tell me that she is my sister, I would get angry. They don't understand I am attracted to her and I can't revert to see her as my sister. Breaking us up makes me feel like I am dying and want to run away.

Please touch me with your prayers before I go crazy and do something stupid.

In Love with Sister, USA


Dear In love with sister,

You are trying to justify the wrong that you are doing. You have been having sex with your sister and you are trying to excuse yourself by saying that your sister might not be your sister because she does not resemble your father. The girl is your sister and you know it.

Both of you got carried away after having drinks. Tell me that both of you were drunk and you had sex. Regardless how it happened, it is still wrong and I am begging you now to desist from what you are doing. It is gross. The Bible condemns it. The Bible says a man should not uncover the nakedness of his sister.

Pray and ask God to help you to stop lusting after your sister and having sex with her. Tell your sister that you are sorry that both of you got involved and that both of you should not be alone until you are able to resist the temptation to have sex.

Finally, I must ask you to seek the help of a psychologist. Both of you should get professional help. Don't damn your soul, young man. Desist from going to bed with your own kin.

Pastor