What he’s really thinking about during sex, and other guy insights
jubalson said
17:14 10/04 2010
BECAUSE women obsess over small things, issues like concerns about body image will get in the way of enjoyment during sex, as they believe that the men are preoccupied with the little flaws as well. So a woman who is not satisfied with her body is often selfconscious during lovemaking, and added to that, shes also saddled with concerns about whether the man is enjoying himself; if he will call her the next morning; if he is silently laughing at her moves; if hes comparing her to other women, etcetera, etcetera.
But do men really care about the flab on your side, your stretch marks, your belly pudge or Caesarean scar during intercourse? Is he comparing you to his last girlfriend or wishing for the moment to be over?
All Woman polled a few men and we were surprised at the answers.
What he thinks about your flaws
Andrew B: I dont think about things like that at all!
Big Boy: Its all about the moment and that is irrelevant at that point. All that matters is that we both enjoy ourselves since we already choose to be in that position. I would only think about it if it turns out to be something really shocking like she only has one breast and I never knew before, or one false leg and she takes it off and kotch it one side. And that would only be if I really had no idea before.
Andre: Thats immature. When I finally get to sleep with a woman, flaws are the last thing on my mind. I also dont expect her to be perfect no one is.
Ian : Im thinking more about my flaws actually. Does she think my belly is too big, or my thing too small?
What he does when he wants to last longer
Wayne G: I just pull out and do other romantic things then settle and go back again.
Big Boy: I dont really think about anything. I want her to enjoy her moment and so I will just slow down and maybe change position or something like that.
Ian : I think about mundane things like my car needs a wash, or I need to get toothpaste at the supermarket.
Andre: I think about money. Thats an instant mood killer. I never have money, so once I start thinking about my sorrows, I have no desire to peak.
What he wants to hear from you, and what he doesnt
Gawayne R: Some women make sounds that turn you on, but sometimes some say some things that turn you off. If in the middle of making love she starts asking if its the same way you give it to Pam, that turns me off! What really turns me on is when a woman calls me by my nickname. My name is Gawayne but when she call me by my nickname Dick that turns me on!
Andrew B: I dont like the whole heap of noise but I like the moaning and groaning.
Wayne G: She can make any sound she wants as long as shes not calling anybody elses name! But I dont like when she says, cho, why you nuh hurry up and come?.
Big Boy: I love it, whichever sound it is. Sometimes I wonder if its really that pleasurable or she just trying to boost my ego, but then I wipe that thought from my head and say, my youth, of course you good!
Andre: I want to hear what she wants me to do to her. I dont want her to scream too much, as that will wake up the kids (laughs).
Ian: I want to hear her say my name.
Can he tell if you are faking or enjoying it?
Gawayne R : I cant tell but my body can. My body is very sensitive and reacts to certain things. If I am not getting an erection no matter what she does to me then I know she is faking it. If the sounds shes making are not right, my body just gets turned off. I cant explain it but that is how it goes.
Wayne G: When she says cho, why you cant hurry up and then starts moaning, you know shes faking it.
Andrew B: No. I cant tell when she is faking it. Big Boy: I can tell when shes enjoying it but I cant tell if she faking it.
Andre: Shes faking it when shes rolling her eyes. Look out for that!
I a n : Bwoy, I can never tell. I dont even care either, because if she wants to pretend to be enjoying herself, who am I to interfere?
What he wants you to do to him
Wayne G: Oral. Then kiss me up and down and put her tongue in my ears.
Big Boy: I just want her to be an extremely active participant. You must want it as much as I do.
Andre: Explore my body. And I mean explore it no hang-ups, no isms. Read a magazine before, watch a porno. I dont want her to be shy at all when it comes to finding my hot spots.
Ian : I want her to tie me up and spank me like a little rude child. My girlfriend did that once and it was the best sexual experience of my life.
Andrew B: I dont think about things like that at all!
I a n : Bwoy, I can never tell. I dont even care either, because if she wants to pretend to be enjoying herself, who am I to interfere?useeeeet u a get di pleasure dnt
Ian : I want her to tie me up and spank me like a little rude child. My girlfriend did that once and it was the best sexual experience of my life. FREAK !!
Andre: Explore my body. And I mean explore it no hang-ups, no isms. Read a magazine before, watch a porno. I dont want her to be shy at all when it comes to finding my hot spots.
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18:32 10/04 2010
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mz más quería veterano said
17:40 10/07 2010
If in the middle of making love she starts asking if its the same way you give it to Pam, that turns me off!
BECAUSE women obsess over small things, issues like concerns about body image will get in the way of enjoyment during sex, as they believe that the men are preoccupied with the little flaws as well. So a woman who is not satisfied with her body is often selfconscious during lovemaking, and added to that, shes also saddled with concerns about whether the man is enjoying himself; if he will call her the next morning; if he is silently laughing at her moves; if hes comparing her to other women, etcetera, etcetera.
But do men really care about the flab on your side, your stretch marks, your belly pudge or Caesarean scar during intercourse? Is he comparing you to his last girlfriend or wishing for the moment to be over?
All Woman polled a few men and we were surprised at the answers.
What he thinks about your flaws
Andrew B: I dont think about things like that at all!
Big Boy: Its all about the moment and that is irrelevant at that point. All that matters is that we both enjoy ourselves since we already choose to be in that position. I would only think about it if it turns out to be something really shocking like she only has one breast and I never knew before, or one false leg and she takes it off and kotch it one side. And that would only be if I really had no idea before.
Andre: Thats immature. When I finally get to sleep with a woman, flaws are the last thing on my mind. I also dont expect her to be perfect no one is.
Ian : Im thinking more about my flaws actually. Does she think my belly is too big, or my thing too small?
What he does when he wants to last longer
Wayne G: I just pull out and do other romantic things then settle and go back again.
Big Boy: I dont really think about anything. I want her to enjoy her moment and so I will just slow down and maybe change position or something like that.
Ian : I think about mundane things like my car needs a wash, or I need to get toothpaste at the supermarket.
Andre: I think about money. Thats an instant mood killer. I never have money, so once I start thinking about my sorrows, I have no desire to peak.
What he wants to hear from you, and what he doesnt
Gawayne R: Some women make sounds that turn you on, but sometimes some say some things that turn you off. If in the middle of making love she starts asking if its the same way you give it to Pam, that turns me off! What really turns me on is when a woman calls me by my nickname. My name is Gawayne but when she call me by my nickname Dick that turns me on!
Andrew B: I dont like the whole heap of noise but I like the moaning and groaning.
Wayne G: She can make any sound she wants as long as shes not calling anybody elses name! But I dont like when she says, cho, why you nuh hurry up and come?.
Big Boy: I love it, whichever sound it is. Sometimes I wonder if its really that pleasurable or she just trying to boost my ego, but then I wipe that thought from my head and say, my youth, of course you good!
Andre: I want to hear what she wants me to do to her. I dont want her to scream too much, as that will wake up the kids (laughs).
Ian: I want to hear her say my name.
Can he tell if you are faking or enjoying it?
Gawayne R : I cant tell but my body can. My body is very sensitive and reacts to certain things. If I am not getting an erection no matter what she does to me then I know she is faking it. If the sounds shes making are not right, my body just gets turned off. I cant explain it but that is how it goes.
Wayne G: When she says cho, why you cant hurry up and then starts moaning, you know shes faking it.
Andrew B: No. I cant tell when she is faking it. Big Boy: I can tell when shes enjoying it but I cant tell if she faking it.
Andre: Shes faking it when shes rolling her eyes. Look out for that!
I a n : Bwoy, I can never tell. I dont even care either, because if she wants to pretend to be enjoying herself, who am I to interfere?
What he wants you to do to him
Wayne G: Oral. Then kiss me up and down and put her tongue in my ears.
Big Boy: I just want her to be an extremely active participant. You must want it as much as I do.
Andre: Explore my body. And I mean explore it no hang-ups, no isms. Read a magazine before, watch a porno. I dont want her to be shy at all when it comes to finding my hot spots.
Ian : I want her to tie me up and spank me like a little rude child. My girlfriend did that once and it was the best sexual experience of my life.
Source:http://www.jamaicaobserver.com/magazines/allwoman/HE-WANTS-YOUR-TONGUE-WHERE
What he thinks about your flaws
Andrew B: I dont think about things like that at all!
I a n : Bwoy, I can never tell. I dont even care either, because if she wants to pretend to be enjoying herself, who am I to interfere?
useeeeet u a get di pleasure dnt
Ian : I want her to tie me up and spank me like a little rude child. My girlfriend did that once and it was the best sexual experience of my life.
FREAK !!
Andre: Explore my body. And I mean explore it no hang-ups, no isms. Read a magazine before, watch a porno. I dont want her to be shy at all when it comes to finding my hot spots.