Below are seven pickup rules women want men to know, and knowing them will give you a huge edge on the competition. These dating rules will not only increase your success rate with women, they will allow you to sweep them off their feet with your new self-assured, gentlemanly attitude.
1- Make eye contact before the approach
Want an easy way to gauge if your approach will be successful? Try making preliminary eye contact from a distance and see how she responds. If she holds your gaze -- or even better, if she smiles -- go talk to her. If she avoids your gaze, on the other hand, your chances are slim. Also, don't forget to do your "research." Survey the area and you'll notice which women are looking to meet someone.
As obvious as it may seem, a woman who is looking around at men in the room is probably going to be more receptive than a woman who is only paying attention to the friends she came with. Remember this: A woman divulges a lot in her body language, so if you want to increase your odds, pay attention. Making and receiving her eye contact is among the most important pickup rules women want men to know.
2- Don't express interest in both her & her friends
Hitting on more than one woman in the same social circle is a real deal-breaker. Not only will it make you seem like a player, but you are forgetting one important factor: In order to successfully pick up a woman, you have to make her feel special. Hitting on or expressing interest in her friends will certainly not make her feel special. So even though you might be attracted to more than one woman in the group, pick a woman and stick with her. The alternative is that you'll be going home alone.
3- Make her feel like she's the hottest woman in the world
Often, a woman will go for a man for only one reason: how he makes her feel. So if you make her feel like the most beautiful girl in the room, chances are she'll want to see you again. This will work in your favor in the long run too; if she's confident and comfortable with you, you'll reap the benefits in all aspects of the relationship. This rule does come with one warning clause: Skip it if she appears to have a big ego already, as you don't need to over-inflate it.
4- Don't avoid complimenting her if you think she's heard it all before
In other words, don't avoid approaching her in the beginning and complimenting her later because you think you're not the first to do so. You might think that it's not worth your while to approach that beautiful girl standing in the corner. You probably assume that she has had umpteen guys chat her up before you. But consider this: Most guys think that very same thing. Often, the prettiest girls get their share of cat-calls on the street, but they don't get approached much by nice, genuine guys. So don't be intimidated or assume she's heard it all before. Instead, if you keep it simple, she just may be grateful for some pleasant, sincere conversation.
5- Don't use cliche, pre-packaged pickup lines
Never, ever do this. Using a cliche line will do one of two things: It will either make you look like you're trying too hard or it will make you seem inexperienced with women (which is even worse). Instead, keep it simple and just try to be sincere. You'll cut through the formalities and stand out from all the men who do use lines on women -- and yes, there are many who still do.
6- Approach her in places other than bars and nightclubs
In a bar or a nightclub, a woman is used to being approached by men, and she'll have her guard up. What this means is that she may reject you simply because you approached her right after a man who annoyed her, or because you were last in a long line of men to talk to her. Furthermore, in nightclubs, as women are expecting to be picked up, they form a defensive shield against unwanted men. This will obviously work against you.
If you approach her in other places, though, you have the element of surprise to your advantage. In a supermarket or a coffee shop, for example, she won't be expecting to get picked up and might be pleasantly surprised by your gesture. Having said all that, do be mindful of approaching a woman who is shopping in sweatpants and appears in a rush -- she probably won't make the best audience.
7- Know when to walk away
Repeat this to yourself before you go in for a pick up: There is nothing worse than a clingy guy. Reading her body language is not only important to gauge when she's interested, but also to determine when to walk away.
For example, is she giving you eye contact or are her eyes wandering around the room? Does she look bored by the conversation? If you are giving her your best, most sincere maneuvers, and she is still not responding, then cut your losses and move on.
What if she is giving you all the good signs? You still shouldn't overstay your welcome. If you leave the conversation on a high note, you'll only leave her wanting more.
Nico-T said
08:49 08/10 2010
***NICO-T SPEAKZ***
KNOW WHEN TO WALK AWAY
BMA said
08:50 08/10 2010
lol lol
bLaCkBeatZ said
11:38 08/10 2010
ahhhhh saaah
godfather said
11:44 08/10 2010
KrYsIs said
11:48 08/10 2010
KNOW WEN TO WALK AWAY
Sando said
12:00 08/10 2010
Dem ting deh womon dem ah pree suh ah jus suh it affi set
Msz JayBee said
12:05 08/10 2010
I agree dem need to know when to walk away is right. Pre packaged pick up lines are a no no! Me and ma girls laugh at guys who try to hit on us at the same time especially when they use the same lines!
I hate pick up lines and I rather a guy approach me and me respectful and engage in interesting chit chat. I can sense bull%&%* a mile away so just be real!
Cobra93 said
12:10 08/10 2010
Kool
dre rulz said
12:32 08/10 2010
sound good
Glitch said
12:44 08/10 2010
7- Know when to walk away! NUff MAN NEED TO KNOW THIS......
MobayEmpire1 said
12:52 08/10 2010
maddd mi like a real deal
Harpz said
12:54 08/10 2010
this was a pretty cool list...
props to the poster..
doops said
13:45 08/10 2010
what
craziidria said
13:55 08/10 2010
dem ca seh dem neva learn ntn from dis
Kelia said
14:01 08/10 2010
hahaha .... men take notes plz
NoKTurnaL said
21:21 08/10 2010
Cool, thanks for looking out even tho i've heard of some of these before
dshiznit said
21:23 08/10 2010
nuh sound bad at all real tugz dem done kno that already
Below are seven pickup rules women want men to know, and knowing them will give you a huge edge on the competition. These dating rules will not only increase your success rate with women, they will allow you to sweep them off their feet with your new self-assured, gentlemanly attitude.
1- Make eye contact before the approach
Want an easy way to gauge if your approach will be successful? Try making preliminary eye contact from a distance and see how she responds. If she holds your gaze -- or even better, if she smiles -- go talk to her. If she avoids your gaze, on the other hand, your chances are slim. Also, don't forget to do your "research." Survey the area and you'll notice which women are looking to meet someone.
As obvious as it may seem, a woman who is looking around at men in the room is probably going to be more receptive than a woman who is only paying attention to the friends she came with. Remember this: A woman divulges a lot in her body language, so if you want to increase your odds, pay attention. Making and receiving her eye contact is among the most important pickup rules women want men to know.
2- Don't express interest in both her & her friends
Hitting on more than one woman in the same social circle is a real deal-breaker. Not only will it make you seem like a player, but you are forgetting one important factor: In order to successfully pick up a woman, you have to make her feel special. Hitting on or expressing interest in her friends will certainly not make her feel special. So even though you might be attracted to more than one woman in the group, pick a woman and stick with her. The alternative is that you'll be going home alone.
3- Make her feel like she's the hottest woman in the world
Often, a woman will go for a man for only one reason: how he makes her feel. So if you make her feel like the most beautiful girl in the room, chances are she'll want to see you again. This will work in your favor in the long run too; if she's confident and comfortable with you, you'll reap the benefits in all aspects of the relationship. This rule does come with one warning clause: Skip it if she appears to have a big ego already, as you don't need to over-inflate it.4- Don't avoid complimenting her if you think she's heard it all before
In other words, don't avoid approaching her in the beginning and complimenting her later because you think you're not the first to do so. You might think that it's not worth your while to approach that beautiful girl standing in the corner. You probably assume that she has had umpteen guys chat her up before you. But consider this: Most guys think that very same thing. Often, the prettiest girls get their share of cat-calls on the street, but they don't get approached much by nice, genuine guys. So don't be intimidated or assume she's heard it all before. Instead, if you keep it simple, she just may be grateful for some pleasant, sincere conversation.
5- Don't use cliche, pre-packaged pickup lines
Never, ever do this. Using a cliche line will do one of two things: It will either make you look like you're trying too hard or it will make you seem inexperienced with women (which is even worse). Instead, keep it simple and just try to be sincere. You'll cut through the formalities and stand out from all the men who do use lines on women -- and yes, there are many who still do.6- Approach her in places other than bars and nightclubs
In a bar or a nightclub, a woman is used to being approached by men, and she'll have her guard up. What this means is that she may reject you simply because you approached her right after a man who annoyed her, or because you were last in a long line of men to talk to her. Furthermore, in nightclubs, as women are expecting to be picked up, they form a defensive shield against unwanted men. This will obviously work against you.
If you approach her in other places, though, you have the element of surprise to your advantage. In a supermarket or a coffee shop, for example, she won't be expecting to get picked up and might be pleasantly surprised by your gesture. Having said all that, do be mindful of approaching a woman who is shopping in sweatpants and appears in a rush -- she probably won't make the best audience.
7- Know when to walk away
Repeat this to yourself before you go in for a pick up: There is nothing worse than a clingy guy. Reading her body language is not only important to gauge when she's interested, but also to determine when to walk away.For example, is she giving you eye contact or are her eyes wandering around the room? Does she look bored by the conversation? If you are giving her your best, most sincere maneuvers, and she is still not responding, then cut your losses and move on.
What if she is giving you all the good signs? You still shouldn't overstay your welcome. If you leave the conversation on a high note, you'll only leave her wanting more.