DO you know that there are things you can do to prevent your man from cheating or even thinking about another woman?
Read on:
1. Keep your sex life active: Have a lot of sex. Men love sex and that is one of the main reasons for cheating. If you can't have sex as often, then introduce the 'teaser'. For example, if you are watching a movie together, allow yourself to get a little freaky, rub your palms along his crotch and gently massage. In no time you will have turned him on. Or the next time you're kissing him hello or goodbye, give him a little more than a peck on the lips... give him some tongue.
2. Add variety to your sex life: If you have a timetable as to which days of the week you will have sex, get rid of it! Be spontaneous and willing to suggest and try new styles. Routine makes it boring and less appealing. Do it in a different room or outdoors, buy something naughty to wear, or invest in edibles. Otherwise, he will get bored and seek adventure with someone else.
3. Fulfil his greatest fantasies: Ask him what his deepest fantasies are and if it does not go against your morals, indulge him. This will make him more relaxed with you and give him reasons to trust and stay with you. Also, tell him what yours are and take a shot at it together.
4. Take interest in his life: Without being overbearing, participate in his life -- work, friends, family, sports, etc. If he feels disconnected from you, he may be more likely to find someone he can connect to, which often leads to cheating.
5. Do not nag: Men hate nags! So much so that they will see their homes and don't want to go there. Always remember that a soft answer turneth away wrath. If you constantly accuse him of cheating, even if he may not be, he'll start. He'll figure that if you think he is cheating, even though he isn't, he might as well cheat. Why take the blame and not play the game?
6. Communicate with him: Be sure that you are communicating with him about everything. However, never say "we need to talk"; this will cause him to be anxious and defensive and you won't get anywhere. What you want to do is launch into the conversation by asking him what he thinks about whatever it is that is on your mind, or telling him how you feel about something he may have done. Always maintain open communication.
7. Forgive quickly: Again, 'don't let the sun go down on your wrath', and once you have discussed and forgiven him for whatever he did wrong -- no matter what it is, do not keep repeating it. Guilt can drive him into another woman's arms.
8. Dress for him: While you may feel comfortable after living with him for years, never get slack in the way you dress at home. Those long unattractive T-shirts, hair in rollers or covered with head ties just won't do. Remember what attracted him to you in the first place and maintain that look.
SOURCE: JAMAICAOBSERVER.COM
Disclaimer: Views expressed are that of the author, and do not necessarily reflect my personal opinion
mz más quería veterano said
08:44 08/04 2010
He'll figure that if you think he is cheating, even though he isn't, he might as well cheat. Why take the blame and not play the game?
DO you know that there are things you can do to prevent your man from cheating or even thinking about another woman?
Read on:
1. Keep your sex life active: Have a lot of sex. Men love sex and that is one of the main reasons for cheating. If you can't have sex as often, then introduce the 'teaser'. For example, if you are watching a movie together, allow yourself to get a little freaky, rub your palms along his crotch and gently massage. In no time you will have turned him on. Or the next time you're kissing him hello or goodbye, give him a little more than a peck on the lips... give him some tongue.
2. Add variety to your sex life: If you have a timetable as to which days of the week you will have sex, get rid of it! Be spontaneous and willing to suggest and try new styles. Routine makes it boring and less appealing. Do it in a different room or outdoors, buy something naughty to wear, or invest in edibles. Otherwise, he will get bored and seek adventure with someone else.
3. Fulfil his greatest fantasies: Ask him what his deepest fantasies are and if it does not go against your morals, indulge him. This will make him more relaxed with you and give him reasons to trust and stay with you. Also, tell him what yours are and take a shot at it together.
4. Take interest in his life: Without being overbearing, participate in his life -- work, friends, family, sports, etc. If he feels disconnected from you, he may be more likely to find someone he can connect to, which often leads to cheating.
5. Do not nag: Men hate nags! So much so that they will see their homes and don't want to go there. Always remember that a soft answer turneth away wrath. If you constantly accuse him of cheating, even if he may not be, he'll start. He'll figure that if you think he is cheating, even though he isn't, he might as well cheat. Why take the blame and not play the game?
6. Communicate with him: Be sure that you are communicating with him about everything. However, never say "we need to talk"; this will cause him to be anxious and defensive and you won't get anywhere. What you want to do is launch into the conversation by asking him what he thinks about whatever it is that is on your mind, or telling him how you feel about something he may have done. Always maintain open communication.
7. Forgive quickly: Again, 'don't let the sun go down on your wrath', and once you have discussed and forgiven him for whatever he did wrong -- no matter what it is, do not keep repeating it. Guilt can drive him into another woman's arms.
8. Dress for him: While you may feel comfortable after living with him for years, never get slack in the way you dress at home. Those long unattractive T-shirts, hair in rollers or covered with head ties just won't do. Remember what attracted him to you in the first place and maintain that look.
SOURCE: JAMAICAOBSERVER.COM
Disclaimer: Views expressed are that of the author, and do not necessarily reflect my personal opinion
He'll figure that if you think he is cheating, even though he isn't, he might as well cheat. Why take the blame and not play the game?
that true