I am a 20-year-old woman and I hope you can help me out. I know it is wrong to say this but I find myself attracted to women. I have had two sexual encounters with them. I know my lifestyle is wrong and I have tried to change a lot of times, but I keep failing. I was a Christian, but not anymore. I know you are going to tell me to visit a psychologist, but sometimes I wonder if it will work in my situation. I have stopped seeing the women as a part of cleaning up my lifestyle. I know what I am doing is wrong and that is why I am asking for your help because I want to make a change in my life, but it is hard.

Pastor, please pray for me.

N.S., St. Andrew, Jamaica

Dear N.S.,

Nothing is too hard for God to do. You want to change your lifestyle, but you will not be able to do so on your own. You need spiritual help also.

A Christian therapist or a psychologist can help you. I am glad to hear that you no longer have contact with the two women. Now, please take the next step and see a counsellor.

Pastor