I am going through a little drama and I hope you can help me.
I met a guy a month ago and, so far, I think I have made a mis-take already, maybe even more, but there is one incident that is bothering me. I think I was moving too fast.
Meal and drink
He was the one who initiated the relationship and, instead of allowing him to prove to me how `much he likes me, I now feel like I am the one pushing for something more.
We went out on a date and I was the one who ended up paying for the meal and drink. Within a few days, he wanted money to borrow. I loaned it to him and, up to now, he hasn't offered to repay the loan and had the nerve to ask for more money.
I am a very generous person, but I think this man only wants money. I have never asked him for anything. Sometimes, I have to wonder if he wants me to pay him to be in a relationship. I don't particularly have a problem in giving a man something, but I don't like it when it is constant and starts feeling like he wants to 'nyam' me out.
Not desperate and unattractive
I don't know why he is behaving like that. It's not like I am des-perate and unattractive, but I lost my soulmate tragically a little over a year ago. He reminds me so much of him and I was so lonely. Whenever I send credit to his phone, he only calls to say he has received it. He always wants me to call him back.
Pastor, I think I want to end this relationship to protect myself from future heartbreak. What do you think?
T.L., St James, Jamaica
Dear T.L.,
You said you are not des-perate, but everything you have done shows that you are trying to buy love. You pay for the dinner when you go on dates. You give him loans and you send credit to his phone.
This man is in the relation-ship for what he can get. He has nothing to give. So, don't expect anything.
Pastor
bad4life71 said
22:35 09/22 2008
to long fi read
Dj Quiva said
22:37 09/22 2008
what a woman.. coo har to bout she a buy lunch n a loan money.. me bembe teeth.. She have dollars but no "sense"
-- Edited by Dj_Rubbut at 23:38, 2008-09-22
***DK*** said
22:37 09/22 2008
lol...wen i read d title i was like kmt... d man find a sugga momma
scuppo said
22:38 09/22 2008
mi think him did waan nyam har out
Wyzco said
22:44 09/22 2008
thats a good woman
rrDesignZ said
00:20 09/23 2008
lol
kurt said
00:25 09/23 2008
i dont c a problem with this cuz a si most woman tan so shi shouldnt complain
lyndo said
00:26 09/23 2008
***DK*** wrote:
lol...wen i read d title i was like kmt... d man find a sugga momma
Dear Pastor,
I am going through a little drama and I hope you can help me.
I met a guy a month ago and, so far, I think I have made a mis-take already, maybe even more, but there is one incident that is bothering me. I think I was moving too fast.
Meal and drink
He was the one who initiated the relationship and, instead of allowing him to prove to me how `much he likes me, I now feel like I am the one pushing for something more.
We went out on a date and I was the one who ended up paying for the meal and drink. Within a few days, he wanted money to borrow. I loaned it to him and, up to now, he hasn't offered to repay the loan and had the nerve to ask for more money.
I am a very generous person, but I think this man only wants money. I have never asked him for anything. Sometimes, I have to wonder if he wants me to pay him to be in a relationship. I don't particularly have a problem in giving a man something, but I don't like it when it is constant and starts feeling like he wants to 'nyam' me out.
Not desperate and unattractive
I don't know why he is behaving like that. It's not like I am des-perate and unattractive, but I lost my soulmate tragically a little over a year ago. He reminds me so much of him and I was so lonely. Whenever I send credit to his phone, he only calls to say he has received it. He always wants me to call him back.
Pastor, I think I want to end this relationship to protect myself from future heartbreak. What do you think?
T.L., St James, Jamaica
Dear T.L.,
You said you are not des-perate, but everything you have done shows that you are trying to buy love. You pay for the dinner when you go on dates. You give him loans and you send credit to his phone.
This man is in the relation-ship for what he can get. He has nothing to give. So, don't expect anything.
Pastor
-- Edited by Dj_Rubbut at 23:38, 2008-09-22
BADANG!!!