Wedding Woes: The Dark Side of Warcraft Feb 13, 2008
Although best-selling online role-playing game World of Warcraft boasts over ten million subscribers, it's also leaving in its wake an increasing list of casualties.
Even though she's never played the game, 28 year-old Jocelyn is one of the fallen. A well-spoken California resident, she divorced her husband of six years after he developed a crippling addiction to the smash online RPG.
"He would get home from work at 6:00, start playing at 6:30, and he'd play until three a.m. Weekends were worse -- it was from morning straight through until the middle of the night. "It took away all of our time that we spent together. I ceased to exist in his life."
Jocelyn had been friends with her ex-husband Peter since the age of 13, but it took only nine months for her marriage to collapse.
"I bought the game for him for Christmas 2004, when it first came out. By May we had our first serious discussion about where our marriage was going, and by September I had moved out," she said.
Jocelyn recalled one particular incident that was typical of Peter's habits. "I had set aside 30 minutes for us to watch a television show together, and he couldn't. He was stuck on a raid, and completely failed to understand why I was upset," she said.
Peter's domestic duties also suffered. He stopped paying bills, she says, and refused to do his share of the housework.
Jocelyn doesn't hesitate to cite Warcraft as the main reason for her divorce and remains emotional about its impact on her marriage. "I'm real, and you're giving me up for a fantasy land. You're destroying your life, your six-year marriage, and you're giving it up for something that isn't even real."
Despite their differences, the couple remains friends, and although Peter still plays World of Warcraft, Jocelyn says he made an effort to cut down after their split.
A gamer herself, Jocelyn briefly worked for World of Warcraft developer Blizzard Entertainment, although not on the title that proved so damaging to her relationship. "I recognized that this was a game that would never end, and that's why I chose not to play it," she said.
"They build it in such a way that you have to keep putting more and more time into it to maintain your status. I remember thinking when I was married that it was downright exploitative to people who couldn't control themselves in that way. It's set up like a drug."
Asked if she would consider marrying another Warcraft player, Jocelyn laughed. "That's actually one of my primary criteria now -- I don't want to marry someone who is a gamer."
tsk.. u men and ur toys..
-- Edited by Gucci at 23:14, 2008-02-15
Crazypickney said
23:15 02/15 2008
marblez said
00:28 02/16 2008
HIM NAH TEK TIME TO F##K HIM GYAL.
jamaican5star said
00:30 02/16 2008
lol ... hahahahhaha, SOME man Fool yuh FRET!!!
Mekhilla said
00:30 02/16 2008
lol him sick
warhawk said
00:31 02/16 2008
its all her fault she bought him the game lolol and she knew what it was capable of
ssugarlipss (Administrator) said
02:28 02/16 2008
linko said
10:11 02/16 2008
madddddd
DJ Romeo said
12:58 02/16 2008
My wife soon lef mi ova MZJA.
chronic_387 said
15:47 02/16 2008
lol@Rome, WOW madd yes, leff har, WOW wont age and it gets Updates!!
Krazily Insane said
20:02 02/16 2008
d man mus spen time wid him wife
Tweeta said
01:07 02/17 2008
this is serious
BadAbe123 said
14:14 02/18 2008
you see when ur addicted to something it's hard to get over it. but trust mi though how can a man be addicted to something such as a game that he can't even find time for his wife.
fabio said
14:50 02/18 2008
c itttttttttttttt deh boy ave him gal n dash r weh wah play game a dat him me say suck u mada meeeeeeeeeeeeee say yeaaaaa eeeee
linko said
15:19 02/18 2008
lol
JamaicasNextTopModel said
01:25 02/20 2008
Why play wit games n toys when U can lpay wit da real ting... crazy azz niggas ..lol
Feb 13, 2008
Although best-selling online role-playing game World of Warcraft boasts over ten million subscribers, it's also leaving in its wake an increasing list of casualties.
Even though she's never played the game, 28 year-old Jocelyn is one of the fallen. A well-spoken California resident, she divorced her husband of six years after he developed a crippling addiction to the smash online RPG.
"He would get home from work at 6:00, start playing at 6:30, and he'd play until three a.m. Weekends were worse -- it was from morning straight through until the middle of the night. "It took away all of our time that we spent together. I ceased to exist in his life."
Jocelyn had been friends with her ex-husband Peter since the age of 13, but it took only nine months for her marriage to collapse.
"I bought the game for him for Christmas 2004, when it first came out. By May we had our first serious discussion about where our marriage was going, and by September I had moved out," she said.
Jocelyn recalled one particular incident that was typical of Peter's habits. "I had set aside 30 minutes for us to watch a television show together, and he couldn't. He was stuck on a raid, and completely failed to understand why I was upset," she said.
Peter's domestic duties also suffered. He stopped paying bills, she says, and refused to do his share of the housework.
Jocelyn doesn't hesitate to cite Warcraft as the main reason for her divorce and remains emotional about its impact on her marriage. "I'm real, and you're giving me up for a fantasy land. You're destroying your life, your six-year marriage, and you're giving it up for something that isn't even real."
Despite their differences, the couple remains friends, and although Peter still plays World of Warcraft, Jocelyn says he made an effort to cut down after their split.
A gamer herself, Jocelyn briefly worked for World of Warcraft developer Blizzard Entertainment, although not on the title that proved so damaging to her relationship. "I recognized that this was a game that would never end, and that's why I chose not to play it," she said.
"They build it in such a way that you have to keep putting more and more time into it to maintain your status. I remember thinking when I was married that it was downright exploitative to people who couldn't control themselves in that way. It's set up like a drug."
Asked if she would consider marrying another Warcraft player, Jocelyn laughed. "That's actually one of my primary criteria now -- I don't want to marry someone who is a gamer."
tsk.. u men and ur toys..
-- Edited by Gucci at 23:14, 2008-02-15