live in the States and I go to Jamaica every year for Christmas.

When I'm down there I stay with my cousin. While in Jamaica, I was really attracted to a guy who I later found out was her boyfriend.

After being down there for a month I started to develop strong feelings for him, but I didn't show it. After coming back to the States, I found out they broke up. Her ex and I started calling each other and now we are going together. But I feel like I'm deceiving my cousin by going out with him although I'm in love with him.

Should I continue seeing him or stop? I'm really torn between the two.

C., USA

Dear C.,

I am sure that your cousin would not like what you are doing. I would like to discourage you from going further with this relationship.

Others may disagree with me, but that is the way I see it. Don't cause any rift between you and your cousin.

*lo** is thicker than water

Cuh yah, she not even talk to her cousin bout it and the man a advise sey she must drop it. Suppoe the cousin nuh have a problem. I mean, i wouldnt do it, cause mi nuh really inna the family mix up, but still, she need fi know if har cousin mind or not. She sey she inlove, u caan tell di woman fi drop di man just like that

SOME PPL ONLY THINK BOUT THEM SELF

LO DI PPL DEM, IF THE PPL DEM IN LOVE, LET THEM BE, THE COUSIN WILL UNDERSTAND IF IT MEANT TO BE.

i say dont interfere with the love man. let them work them tings out!!

mind she mek the same mistake beenie mek. Dont pick up people ol trash. If somebody dash it weh dont pick it up.

a real talk garrick a show dem

LOL POOR BEENIE BUT AS A BIG MAN BEENIE SHOULD KNOW BETTER THAT WHY IT NO GOOD FI EAT FROM WOMAN IS THE CURRY GOAT DANGEL USE AND TIE BEENIEMAN

lol @ madjm

Keep it in the family. Grandma watchout you next.