If yuh was wid a partner and he/she cheat on yuh... would you forgive dem and get on with it or split wid dem??

well first of all i would want to know the reason why....then i would deal with it accordingly

if my girl had to cheat on me i will not want to be with her no more...bcus in a relationship u have to b faithfull always...it's like this if i not feelin my girl any more i will break up with her an hook up with another girl but with all them girls at once that's too much "DRAMA" for me...

If ma bf cheated on me I dont think it'd be fair to jus up n split without having some truthful understanding of what went down.... Basically, if it was a ongoing thing behind ma back den him can gimme nuh chat.. no pree.. straight... But we all kno temptation strong and some gal out deh mek it a point of duty fi tek ppl man so if U relationship av a solid foundation n U can reason pon a level den tings supposed to can work out uzimi...

same ting mi seh to @model

jah know that one tricky because emotions r so unstable... well it all comes down if I am able to function after finding out, if i can't forgive and forget I'm gonna leave the relationship...

Hmm... For me, he shouldnt have any reasons to cheat. I know long distance can break or make any person but even though u have cravings for an act (not necessarily for another) the strong concrete relationship should give u enough flair to overcome it. If that doesnt work, then its a matter of understanding what actually happen and trying to find the logics on if it can continue to work out without it being thrown back in the person's face whenever a disagreement occur or due to the lack of trust because of the event. I know i may seem like i'm mad, but sometimes its not worth throwing away a good relationship over a little misguided judgement, at least without a good discussion on the reason behind it.

Mi rate weh di i dem a seh still, especially the model...lol but if my woman shoulda cheat, me wouldnt feel the same way bout her like before.

str8.. a dat mi seh Pengo... mi caaan feel the same way iyah.. no sah... she drop di thing.... afta mi a guh feel like sey mi extra activities outside a mi relationship... yea mi nah tell nuh lie.. a justice mi a deal wid... lol

if she cheat once she will cheat again.. SIMPLE...if a person cheat it can cause by many reasons too send them to cheat..like not givin them attention are spendin much time with them..an i know they got some girls that have a mouth on them an that mouth can run a man to cheat bcus i was in that boat few yrs ago..but instead i cheat i just drop the girl all together..it's like this if u girl make u happy an u make her happy then u got no reason to cheat..bless

-- Edited by jahblessI at 14:01, 2007-12-13

kool nuh rakeem. Sameway jahbless.

if she wa go then let her keep goin!!!

Its different when yuh have kids. Yuh doan know what yuh wid do until the situation arise. Joe Grine always at the door you have to keep the fire burning. Long term relationships tek alot of wuk. All in all it depends on the reason behind the act, if it was ongoing or a moment of weakness.

well i dont think things could ever be the same once u are apart yu ago have that distrust for your partner that can lead to arguments so in the end better you call it a day pon that relationship

i don't tolerate cheating