Ladies, why is it that we tend to go for the guys that are bad for us? by the word bad I mean, "badboy, gangsta type, dope boys".

I have noticed that my girl friends like a guy with an "edge", "swagger" etc. and if he's too nice ..he's "boring". In the end, they end up choosing the nice guy that will wife them, treat them well and be truthful, faithful etc.

Is this a phase we all go through?? or does it take a REALLY REALLY bad experience for us to wake up and choose the NICE guys in the end????

Me and my fren was chattin about dis last night..

Pls state your opinions, comments, suggestions

Hmm.... this is a good question. I do like the macho looking type guys, but if they're inside is just as hard then i dont even stay to find out more. Some of these badboy gangsta type are really sweethearts underneath, just have to dig it out. Some dont even let u dig it out, they show u the soft side once they get to trust u and to me, its worth it. The nice guys that walk with their heart on their sleeves, some of them is a ticking timebomb, while others are really nice. But not everyone is turned on by the same type of guys. Some girls are just plain out for a challenge when they pick up a macho dude and cant handle the heat or dont know when its time to pick up and leave

cos u feel secure i guess badboy gives the best loving them seh

lol@steppz

We tend to go far da gangstas cuz they streetwise n overall they just bring sumn different to the table... We roll wid dem cuz everyday is an adventure n girls just wanna have fun... Initially, they are more appealing cuz U kno when U young U jus wanna have mad fun n ting n the gangsta will do U right if him rate U as him girl... Di good guy ting now kinda boring cuz there's nutn new... same old shit.. different day... missionary... mama and papa n ting... no foot pan shoulder.. no lizard lap....LMFAO no drama.. uzimi.. but U kno seh in the end U want a fairy tale wedding, husband and marraige weh U nah go really get from di gangsta... A jus so di ting set up...

lol @ model

Yo, wa mi feel mek woman like macho guys like me, a cuz dem nuh want no goody goody guy who go mek dem can walk ova, if dat a di case then it nvr make any sense dem did deh wid dem in the first place, and bout di posiiton ting a tru ting dat, gangsta kno how fi please dem girl more "Gangsta Fah lyfe a sticky sey dat"

mi like di challenge of di macho guy.. ....Goody goody guy nuh kno good too boring fi mi hype self lol

lol@steppz

girls fall for the gangsters same reason y man fall for dem f**ky f**ky type a girls...but in the end they will neva wife up dat f**ky f**ky type a girl in the end wen we grow up an see dat we not gettin nutten from the G we will go look for a good guy...same way a man will grow up an realize he cant wife up a sket but a decent woman

Wise words from mekhilla.

I'm like that too. I like guys with a swagger...they gotta have a bad boy effect to them ad guys without I find extremely boring. Females always tend to go after the bad boys. It's like we're always drawn to them. Then we end up getting hurt by these same guys and later on in life we always end up with the good guys. To me females need to get hurt in order to learn from that experience.

Hey! listen this, woman basically nuh know whey them want when them young. So that's why them go fi the gangsta when them young. And later in life them go fi the nice guy, because a woman nuh just want sex she want money and other assets and the nice guy generally have the money and other assets. You see when a man deh wid a sketel or a go after a sketel a just sex and nothing else, because the man know say a sketel woman can do nothing but sex,cuss and spend off all the money.

cause gangstas go ruff an hard goody goody guy bow

Women just don't know what they want plain and straight.

oh ok ladies i'm learn from wat u all saying

GOOD GIRLS R HARD A WOOORRK HOT GIRLS GO OUT AND FLIIIIIRT GOOD GUYS GET DEM FEELINGS HURT AND BAD BOYS WILL BE DISHIN DI DIIIIRT.... ZOOOOOOOOOOOOM 'MEMBA DEM TUNE DEH ?

Jah kno star....interesting

gangster man give her the best f*k eva the gangster man yes we f*k so cleva

I was wondering the same thing an till now havent got a answer but i would say unnu need a bad experience to wake up