I have a really hard question to pose to you and I want you all to be honest in your responses. What would you do if you found out that your only child is gay?
It's a question no parent wants to face, but the reality is there that some will have to deal with it sooner or later as more and more gays are coming out of the closet.
I came across a situation the other day where one parent sent her child to a mixed school only to pull the girl out because as she claimed "the boys were feeling her up".
She eventually placed the daughter in an all girls school and then the horror began, the male hands were replaced by softer feminine ones!
In the end the mother had to admit that if she had a choice she would have preferred to have her daughter dealing with a man.
Seriously, what approach would you take if you discovered that your son or your daughter had no desire for the opposite sex, but instead wants to get it on with members of the same sex?
Would you kick their *ss to the curb and bring down no ends of disgrace on them? Would you embrace them because at the end of they are already your children and nothing can change that? Or would you pretend that the situation doesn't exist until it blows up in your faces through some gang beating by gay bashers?
You can bury your heads in the sand all you like but at the end of the day, no amount of wishing and hoping and pretending will make the situation go away.
I am asking some hard questions, but to tell the truth I have already seen the answers in a lot of situations in Jamaica. Some gays are left abandoned by the one constant in their lives their family, while others don't know exactly where they fit in.
Yup, the tendency is not to have any pity as many say they brought it on themselves, yet scientific research claims - they were born with more genes of the opposite sex and have no option but to be gay... so you also have choices in your response to gays.
You can choose to love them or turn your backs on their lifestyle treating them as sub humans.
So, I close my column with the way it began...tell me, what would you really do...I really want to know.
Comments
Glitch said
22:43 12/04 2007
Hard one to answer if ur not in that situation....some things u only can answer when it happens to you. We can say anything until we in the a situation, We do the total opposite.
mz más quería veterano said
23:05 12/04 2007
-- Edited by Ill-matic on Wednesday 19th of May 2010 10:04:33 AM
Crazypickney said
23:13 12/04 2007
I agree with Glitch
bLaCkBeatZ said
23:42 12/04 2007
well u can only do two things.
Accept the child
OR
Kill the child(kill meaning ostracize, disowning and literally killing, anything but accepting it)
Glitch said
23:52 12/04 2007
@ owadkelly "ostracize and literally killing" LMAO.....lol
steppz said
07:44 12/05 2007
kill him slowly u kno like chain him to an ant tree cut his ankle deep and slowly until he screams in pain dem u skin ova him buddy an slice di head slowly in 3 parts so it split up so him can bawl den u freak out an say ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh ima kill gay ass lol im mad init well glitch sed it all so i agree wit him
bLaCkBeatZ said
12:29 12/05 2007
boi, you can tell u young...no woman would do that to her child cept barbara bush hehe but for real no mother who carried the child for 9 months would have the heart to do dat, more likely the father
swif said
12:54 12/05 2007
steppz heartless! I agree with glitch hard 2 say till u hav 2 deal with it
steppz said
13:25 12/05 2007
owadkelly jus cut man if u c the last bit of my f**king statement u wudnt of sed wat u sed read it man an dnt critisize ma shit
msvybzkartel said
14:00 12/05 2007
owadkelly wrote:
boi, you can tell u young...no woman would do that to her child cept barbara bush hehe but for real no mother who carried the child for 9 months would have the heart to do dat, more likely the father
yeah im young but not that young and cold hearted and naive in a sort of way God yes GOD makes everybodys differnet but we suppose to accept maybe not put up with it but we shouldnt kill or harm the people u would be pissed if someone killed you because they dont like what ur doing so what gives us the right yeah i can sing a beenie or bounty song but at the end of the day i wont act on those thoughts but respect them for who they are respect to everybody who agrees. msvk
bulldog said
19:23 12/05 2007
a cudn my bwoy, mi wudda beat it out a him and then disown him or mi kill the likkle fish
fabio said
19:46 12/05 2007
MI WUDA KILL HIM RASSSSSS JAH KN IF MI NUH KILL HIM MI MEK SUMMDY KILL HIM FI REAL YA BUN A GAY EVERY DAY
CALOSS said
19:52 12/05 2007
mi wudnt kill him, but mi wudnt have nuh association fi do wid him. NO BUT, NOT EVEN CIGARETTE BUT
Crazypickney said
21:35 12/05 2007
@ caloss
killa said
22:14 12/05 2007
ppl remind me not to ever get on steppz wrong side and mek shi know whe mi live
steppz said
10:12 12/06 2007
nah killa ima very nice perosn yh owadkelly always got supp'm to say wen its involving me like him love mi r supp'm guy jus deh pon mi swagg suh hop off man shit
pengo said
10:17 12/06 2007
lol @ steppz. But seriously after tryin to change the child's sexula preference, if i fail to then that child couldnt call me dad nomore.
Coulda be mi dady an a battyman...Cut im off!
shardo said
22:21 12/06 2007
mi wudda sen him go ah Jamaica wid all ah mi boy cousin dem n mek dem rough him up n teach him fi f*ck gyal
What would you do if your child is GAY?
By:
It's a question no parent wants to face, but the reality is there that some will have to deal with it sooner or later as more and more gays are coming out of the closet.
I came across a situation the other day where one parent sent her child to a mixed school only to pull the girl out because as she claimed "the boys were feeling her up".
She eventually placed the daughter in an all girls school and then the horror began, the male hands were replaced by softer feminine ones!
In the end the mother had to admit that if she had a choice she would have preferred to have her daughter dealing with a man.
Seriously, what approach would you take if you discovered that your son or your daughter had no desire for the opposite sex, but instead wants to get it on with members of the same sex?
Would you kick their *ss to the curb and bring down no ends of disgrace on them? Would you embrace them because at the end of they are already your children and nothing can change that? Or would you pretend that the situation doesn't exist until it blows up in your faces through some gang beating by gay bashers?
You can bury your heads in the sand all you like but at the end of the day, no amount of wishing and hoping and pretending will make the situation go away.
I am asking some hard questions, but to tell the truth I have already seen the answers in a lot of situations in Jamaica. Some gays are left abandoned by the one constant in their lives their family, while others don't know exactly where they fit in.
Yup, the tendency is not to have any pity as many say they brought it on themselves, yet scientific research claims - they were born with more genes of the opposite sex and have no option but to be gay... so you also have choices in your response to gays.
You can choose to love them or turn your backs on their lifestyle treating them as sub humans.
So, I close my column with the way it began...tell me, what would you really do...I really want to know.
Comments
-- Edited by Ill-matic on Wednesday 19th of May 2010 10:04:33 AM
respect to everybody who agrees.
msvk
Coulda be mi dady an a battyman...Cut im off!
-- Edited by shardo15169 at 22:22, 2007-12-06