This woman has a new boyfriend, loves him but thinks about the ex all the time...HOW CAN THAT BE RIGHT?
GA said
19:52 02/16 2009
My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 1/2 months. He is handsome, gives me butterflies when he kisses me, gives me great oral and lots of love. I feel so safe and good with him. He is offering me everything I want at 32 years old - stability, love, support. He is my best friend and wants what I want - marriage and children. The problem? I still think about my ex-lover. In fact, I broke up with my ex-lover FOR my current boyfriend because my ex-lover could not give me the things I wanted and needed emotionally. But he was the best sex I ever had.
I am still in contact with him and I can't seem to get over that attraction and desire to be with him. I love the sex with my ex-lover, but my boyfriend fulfills my emotional needs. I can't describe this attraction for my ex-lover. It was stars and planets when we made love. but he is too "emotionally wrecked" from his divorce to make a commitment to anyone - including me. Which is why I left him for my current boyfriend. I'm not sure what to do. I dont' want to cheat on my boyfriend. But it's also not fair for me to be thinking about my ex-lover when I'm making love to my boyfriend. This is confusing. Advice?
Don't understand...it's the girl who is not getting any pleasure from the new guy.
WIFEY said
19:55 02/16 2009
wow chica u need help
rrDesignZ said
19:55 02/16 2009
him taili small then
GA said
19:56 02/16 2009
rrDesignZ wrote:
him taili small then
Vital said
19:56 02/16 2009
Advice?? People can give you all the advice they want, but it really up to you. Want you want and need.!!!! Its your relationship and no one else's so only you know how you feel.!!!
ta said
19:56 02/16 2009
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DRE_2950 said
19:57 02/16 2009
lol
shottahill said
19:57 02/16 2009
lol
jamaicabwoy said
19:57 02/16 2009
You love the guy ..but your not in love with him thats the issue ...simple
GA said
19:58 02/16 2009
Vital wrote:
Advice?? People can give you all the advice they want, but it really up to you. Want you want and need.!!!! Its your relationship and no one else's so only you know how you feel.!!!
So run the new bf then...she is clearly not happy!
Shem1 said
19:58 02/16 2009
THAT AINT RIGHT AT ALL
Mediazone Badman said
20:02 02/16 2009
THE EX BF MUST OF BEEN USING ALLOT OF AXE BODY SPAY.
Msz JayBee said
20:09 02/16 2009
JB hit the nail on the head and another thing sex is one of the most important factors in a relationship if it's not good expect your partner to cheat.
GA said
20:11 02/16 2009
So_InTriCat3 wrote:
JB hit the nail on the head and another thing sex is one of the most important factors in a relationship if it's not good expect your partner to cheat.
What about "grin and bear it"? After all you have made a commitment to this fellow and is this how things will be when she gets married?
-- Edited by MZJ at 20:14, 2009-02-16
bonnyb said
20:13 02/16 2009
hmmmm
Msz JayBee said
20:17 02/16 2009
MZJ wrote:
So_InTriCat3 wrote:
JB hit the nail on the head and another thing sex is one of the most important factors in a relationship if it's not good expect your partner to cheat.
What about "grin and bear it"? After all you have made a commitment to this fellow and is this how things will be when she gets married?
-- Edited by MZJ at 20:14, 2009-02-16
Grin and bear it? In today's world ain't no way someone will stay in a relationship n the sex is not good. IT'S NOT HAPPENING!
I am still in contact with him and I can't seem to get over that attraction and desire to be with him. I love the sex with my ex-lover, but my boyfriend fulfills my emotional needs. I can't describe this attraction for my ex-lover. It was stars and planets when we made love. but he is too "emotionally wrecked" from his divorce to make a commitment to anyone - including me. Which is why I left him for my current boyfriend. I'm not sure what to do. I dont' want to cheat on my boyfriend. But it's also not fair for me to be thinking about my ex-lover when I'm making love to my boyfriend. This is confusing. Advice?
Originally posted here
-- Edited by MZJ at 19:53, 2009-02-16
Don't understand...it's the girl who is not getting any pleasure from the new guy.
So run the new bf then...she is clearly not happy!
What about "grin and bear it"? After all you have made a commitment to this fellow and is this how things will be when she gets married?
-- Edited by MZJ at 20:14, 2009-02-16