Here are some suggestions of things that we do to keep our relationship alive and are things you can do to build strong roots in your relationships beginning right now...
1. Talk about everything that is important to you and don't keep secrets. Let your partner know who you are.
2. Keep your heart open to your partner even if you want to close it. That doesn't mean you always agree with him/her but it does mean that you listen and you remember that the two of you love each other, even if it doesn't seem that way in the moment.
3. Resolve differences as soon as you can and don't let them simmer. Old resentments and judgments that come up time and time again without resolution kill relationships from the inside out.
4. Stay in the present moment. Nothing damages relationships more that when you live in the past-even past relationships-or futurize what "might" happen.
5. Make a commitment to "not run away" -physically or emotionally-- when things get difficult or if there is a problem or challenge between the two of you. It's okay to take some time to "get yourself" together so that you can be totally "present" while your partner speaks but make sure that you set a time to do so if either of you need to do that.
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15:38 12/06 2007
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Dreisus said
02:26 06/21 2008
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17:02 06/26 2008
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17:32 06/26 2008
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ladyvane18 said
17:34 06/26 2008
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luckycharm said
21:06 06/28 2008
wow....nice post pengo. and i completely agree
alligcold said
21:07 06/28 2008
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shamar said
21:08 06/28 2008
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YUNG_BERRY said
20:40 06/30 2008
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YUNG_BERRY said
20:40 06/30 2008
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JamaicanQueen said
10:32 07/09 2008
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xxXMightyXxx said
20:22 08/28 2008
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goodasgyal08 said
18:20 09/07 2008
omg dis was great info dats so true about livin in da past dats one of da things i need 2 stop doin
MZ Legend said
23:49 10/02 2008
will do will do...................
jesusamidaddy said
15:02 11/19 2008
nutten more 2 it. the real deal
biggjpuppy said
19:11 01/17 2009
Relationships r the key to happiness...
Garrick said
19:17 01/17 2009
true words
Shem1 said
12:00 06/13 2009
OH NICE
Gangsta Natz said
22:15 10/08 2009
i got 1-3 covered working on 4 and 5 but good info
relationship alive and are things you can do to build strong roots in
your relationships beginning right now...
1. Talk about everything that is important to you and don't keep
secrets. Let your partner know who you are.
2. Keep your heart open to your partner even if you want to close it.
That doesn't mean you always agree with him/her but it does mean that
you listen and you remember that the two of you love each other, even
if it doesn't seem that way in the moment.
3. Resolve differences as soon as you can and don't let them simmer.
Old resentments and judgments that come up time and time again
without resolution kill relationships from the inside out.
4. Stay in the present moment. Nothing damages relationships more
that when you live in the past-even past relationships-or futurize
what "might" happen.
5. Make a commitment to "not run away" -physically or emotionally--
when things get difficult or if there is a problem or challenge
between the two of you. It's okay to take some time to "get
yourself" together so that you can be totally "present" while your
partner speaks but make sure that you set a time to do so if either
of you need to do that.