THANKS FOR SUCKING MY DICK (WOMEN ARE WONDERFUL BEINGS)
Let me preface this blog by saying I KNOW that every woman gives head
If you find this offensive that is not my intention.....
I am more interested in making you more comfortable with the things you do
and sending me a message saying you do not is pointless so please my empresses save your energy
Popular entertainer Chris Rock explained it best in the video clip from 1999 (and I emphasize 1999)
In the year 2009 Contrary to how it may seem at reggae events, I think I can speak for all men when I say , "THANK YOU, LADIES FOR SUCKING MY DICK"
Dancehall culture or Jamaican culture is one of many "taboos" , most of which I personally agree with.
We no like *****man, fish, @#$ and dat nah go change
We no like informer, rat, snitch..
We no like badmind, grudgeful....
The list goes on.....
When it comes to women one popular taboo is "women providing oral sex" or "sucking dick" if you will
This one is very interesting because the same men who "fire burn" it in the dancehall "request" it in every day life.
This to me seems like hypocrisy and blatant stupidity
I personally don't play "heads high" and songs like those, I personally big up the girls who do them ting as much chances as I get
Pree the music , my song "My girl put yu mouth pon the buddy" was recognized by FADER MAGAZINE as being a milestone in dancehall so to speak
But almost every Vybz Kartel girl song makes some reference to girls giving head (tek a pree if yu no believe me)
Reggae a change, dancehall a change, they say the only constant in life is change
In the year 2009 Ladies , no shame in your game. I, Fudgie Springer, Di GYAL DEM WHORE,
i) give you permission to be yourself,
ii) to not worry about what people who either are doing the same thing, or willing recipients, say about you,
iii) to be proud that you are willing to please your significant other,
I HAVE TO APPLAUD YOU, My life has been better because of the things you do
Who would I be without you
I have not slept with every girl by no stretch of the imagination, but every girl I have slept with more than once has gave me head. MAYBE I'M JUST LUCKY... who knows...
BUT LADIES THANKS FOR SUCKING MY DICK
I want you to understand,
I had myself a really good cry yesterday.
Yesterday, I cried,
for all the days that I was too busy,
or too tired,
or too mad to cry.
I cried for all the days, and all the ways,
and all the times I had dishonored,
disrespected, and
disconnected my Self from myself,
only to have it reflected back to me
in the ways others did to me
the same things I had already done to myself.
I cried for all the things I had given,
only to have them stolen;
for all the things I had asked for that
had yet to show up;
for all the things I had accomplished,
only to give them away,
to people in circumstances,
which left me feeling empty,
and battered and plain old used.
I cried because there really does
come a time when the only thing left
for you to do is cry.
Yesterday, I cried.
I cried because little boys get
left by their daddies;
and little girls get forgotten by their mommies;
and daddies don't know what to do, so they leave;
and mommies get left, so they get mad.
I cried because I had a little boy,
and because I was a little girl,
and because I was a mommy
who didn't know what to do,
and because I wanted my daddy to be there
for me so badly until I ached.
Yesterday, I cried.
I cried because I hurt.
I cried because I was hurt.
I cried because hurt has no place to go
except deeper into the pain that
caused it in the first place,
and when it gets there,
the hurt wakes you up.
I cried because it was too late.
I cried because it was time.
I cried because my soul knew that I didn't know
that my soul knew everything I needed to know.
I cried a soulful cry yesterday,
and it felt so good.
It felt so very, very bad.
In the midst of my crying,
I felt my freedom coming,
Because Yesterday,
I cried with an agenda.
(Iyanla Vanzant,
from her book Yesterday I Cried:
Celebrating the Lessons of Living
and Loving)
the pain tore me apart
untill you came and fixed my broken heart
i guess everyone needs a way out
& you say theres no escape but
take my hand so we can fly away
together for ever and ever again
this is one hell of a ride
so lets do this together
we'll get through together
forever and on
brace yourself now
just hold on tight now
tighter then ever
forever and on
and just thinking about
seeing your face or hearing your voice,
takes the tears away
& they say
your the best thing thats ever
happened to me
we're simply meant to be
now this is one hell of a miracle
so lets do this together
we'll get through together
forever and on
brace yourself now
just hold on tight now
tighter then ever
forever and on
can u feel that?
we're really doing it
for the first time in our lives,
we seem to be flying
I'm delicately handing my heart to you,
In your caressing hands to forever keep.
I'm giving you the chance of destroying me,
And I know I'm in your love too deep.
I'm giving my entire self to you,
All of my mind, body, and soul.
Handing over to you my everything,
In hopes, you'll be the one to keep me whole.
I'm depending on your gentle and sweet love,
To get me through the tragic world each day.
I'm praying to God you'll always be here by my side,
And that's where you'll always be to stay.
Putting you over everyone else including myself,
You automatically go to the front of my line.
Which is why I'm delicately handing you my heart,
In hopes, you'll always and eternally, completely be mine.
FIBI
To every girl who fights for love and you lost the round before it begun,
To every girl who searched up and down, yet answers still came unfound ,
To every girl who ever thought suicide would ease the pain you feel inside ,
To every girl who ever trusted a guy , who shattered your heart with lie after lie ,
To every girl who now thinks they're all the same , its not your fault, its him who you should blame ,
To every girl who couldnt see, you ran yourself in circles when its you they should be chasing
You were chasing him, while he was chasing her , and the further he runs the more spacing occurs ,
To every girl who now wonders "what is wrong with me?!" , beauty on the outside must go beyond skin deep for him to keep.
To every girl who ever said "I love you" , you now wonder if his response was ever true,
To every girl who now thinks of regret , the Bible says "forgive & forget" ,
So to every girl with tears in your eyes , stop being angry , just wipe them dry ,
And if you ever feel the need to need to cry , just do yourself a favor and look to the sky ,
To every girl whose wondering why , just know God says "He loves you" , and He never lies .