From experience i've gathered that a woman wants a "masculine" man and I know women don't know what they want, let alone us...lol but,for educational purposes, define masculine or what you might call a real MAN. I've seen "men" on here acting so boyishly, they could learn a thing or three.
We had our first argument last night, and he said a lot of cruel things that really hurt me. I know he is sorry and didn't mean the things he said, because he sent me flowers today. I got flowers today. It wasn't our anniversary or any other special day.
Last night he threw me into a wall and started to choke me. It seemed like a nightmare, I couldn't believe it was real. I woke up this morning sore and bruised all over. I know he must be sorry cause he sent me flowers today.
I got flowers today, and it wasn't mother's day or any other special day.
Last night, he beat me up again, it was much worse than all the other times.. If I leave him, what will I do? How will I take care of my kids? What about money? I'm afraid of him and scared to leave. But I know he must be sorry because he sent me flowers today.
I got flowers today. Today was a very special day. It was the day of my funeral! Last night, he finally killed me. He beat me to death. If only I had gathered enough courage to leave him, I would not have gotten flowers today...
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It appears that the majority of people who don't kiss and tell keep quiet for fear that their friends will try to get some too. And it seems like a lot of people who responded knew someone whose loose lips got them screwed over by a friend
So the question is simple, have you ever slept with a friend's SO?
Twice Katie asked for a smear test, but was told she was 'too young' to need one. Now 24, she is dying from cervical cancer, one of many young women who have fallen victim to a scandalous change in health policy.
One year ago Katie Hilliard was a typical 20-something - working in the City, going out with friends from university and generally just having fun.
But the 24-year-old now has cervical cancer and despite a hysterectomy, chemotherapy and radiotherapy, the disease has spread to her lymph nodes and lungs. Doctors have given Katie at best two years; at worst 11 months.
'They have not been very positive about the future,' she says simply.
Kate
Katie Hilliard, 24, is terminally ill with cervical cancer after being denied a smear test 'because she was too young'
What makes her story even more tragic is that cervical cancer, if detected early, is a preventable disease.
In fact, Katie had actually requested a smear test - used to detect the pre-cancerous cell changes linked to the disease - twice in the four years before her diagnosis.
Yet each time she was refused, because she was 'too young'.
Too young to be eligible for a smear test, though not too young to contract cervical cancer.
She says: 'If I'd had a smear test when I was 21, all of this could have been avoided.'
Instead, Katie is now undergoing more chemotherapy and is desperately researching alternative ways of fighting the cancer.
She is in a lot of pain and has trouble walking. 'I feel old before my time, but I want to live. I'm not going to give up,' she says.
'I wanted to have children and buy a house, but getting a mortgage is now impossible,' says the insurance broker from Haywards Heath, West Sussex.
She and her fiance still plan to marry this October, and she has had her eggs saved in the hope that she goes into remission.
'Some days I'm really hopeful, other days I don't know how I'm going to do this. This should never have happened. I am too young to be dealing with this.
'It is something that a simple smear test should have sorted out.'
Katie
Katie, before she was diagnosed with cancer last year
Like Katie, Claire Everett, 22, a married mother-of-one, is terminally ill with cervical cancer. She has no doubt that a smear test 'would have made all the difference'.
An otherwise healthy young woman, when she developed worrying symptoms (an unusual discharge) last year she immediately went to the doctor; the cancer was diagnosed and initially chemotherapy and radiation were thought to have been successful.
Yet last summer, two months after the treatment finished, Claire was told the disease had spread through her pelvis and the cancer was now incurable.
'My mum was crying her eyes out,' she recalls. 'She asked if the cancer was terminal and I walked out of the room. Sometimes I think that if I ignore bad news, it's not happening.
'My initial thought was not for me, but for Alex, my little boy, who's two. The thought that I might not see him grow up broke my heart.'
Both Katie and Claire had fallen foul of a recent change in government health policy.
Until a few years ago, all women in the UK were offered regular screening for cervical cancer from the age of 20; then in 2004 the screening age in England was raised to 25 (it remains at 20 in Scotland and Wales).
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This was because the risk of cervical cancer in younger women was thought to be negligible.
But experts believe this change in policy means the condition could go undiagnosed while it is still highly treatable.
It was 'a very poor decision', says Professor John Shepherd, surgeon and gynaecological oncologist at The Royal Marsden Hospital in London.
'Approximately 10 per cent of patients diagnosed with invasive cervical cancer are women aged 30 or younger, and these numbers are likely to increase.'
This is because the disease is caused by the Human Papilloma virus (HPV), the most common sexually transmitted infection.
Up to 75 per cent of sexually active men and women will come into contact with the virus at some point in their lifetime although many will not realise this, as it does not cause symptoms.
Most cervical cancers take time to develop from pre-cancerous cells to full-blown cancer - the concern is that with British teenagers on average becoming sexually active at 16, some young women will have already developed serious cell changes or even early stage cancer by the time they are eligible for their first smear at 25.
Screening at 25 is far too late, says Professor Shepherd. He believes women should ideally have their first smear test as soon as they become sexually active and certainly no later than the age of 20.
This is in line with America, where screening begins at 20 or within three years of first sexual contact - whichever comes earlier.
In other countries, such as Australia, screening begins at 18.
'I think it is inappropriate in 2008 that the NHS screening programme in England does not acknowledge and thus protect young women who are sexually active before they reach the age of 25,' says Pamela Morton, director of the cervical cancer charity Jo's Trust. 'Frankly, it's disgraceful.'
What's so frustrating is that the health authorities are taking the risk of the disease seriously enough to introduce a controversial vaccination programme for 12 to 13-year-old girls in September.
As a result, thousands of young women who are too old for vaccination, yet too young for routine screening, will be left in medical limbo.
The fact is that once a woman is eligible for it, the NHS Screening Programme is hugely successful.
It prevents many cancers from developing and detects others at an early enough stage to save 4,500 lives annually.
Claire Walker
Claire Walker 22 , is terminally ill with cervical cancer and says a smear test 'would have made all the difference'
One of the arguments against earlier screening is that a high proportion of cell abnormalities in women under 25 will revert to normal without the need for treatment.
The diagnostic test and treatment for cell changes also carry a small risk of scarring or infection, which may affect a woman's ability to conceive or bear children.
'We know there is a lot of anxiety associated with an abnormal test,' says Professor David Luesley, adviser to the NHS Screening Programme.
'While we can prevail upon the medical community to be conservative with women under 25 to avoid unnecessary intervention, it is sometimes difficult to do that when you're faced with a very anxious young woman who has perhaps had more than one abnormal test.'
'The needs of the many outweigh the needs of the very few,' he adds. 'All screening is based on that same principle.
'If a screening test causes more harm to a population than good, it is not a good screening test. Screening tests apply to populations, not individuals.'
For the unfortunate women diagnosed with cervical cancer while still 'too young' to qualify for the smear test that might have protected them, this view is likely to provide scant consolation.
Katie Hilliard was 19 when she first asked for a smear test. 'All my friends were having them, so I thought I'd better book one, too, but I was told I didn't need one until I was 20.
'So the following year I went to my local clinic, only to be told the criteria had changed and I wasn't now due to be tested until I was 25.
'I even double-checked with my GP and they told me the same story.'
Then in March last year she developed a discharge she thought was probably thrush. 'It never occurred to me it could be something as bad as cancer.'
After an internal examination, Katie was referred to Guy's Hospital, London, where she had a biopsy two weeks later. A fortnight after that, she was called back for the results.
'I walked into the room and I could just tell by the look on their faces that it was bad news. They told me they'd found grade 3 cancer cells, which are the most aggressive.'
Last summer Katie had chemoradiation treatment, which is a five-week regime of daily radiotherapy c****ined with a weekly dose of chemotherapy.
This was followed by a hysterectomy, which left her devastated at the knowledge she could never bear her own children.
Claire
Claire, pictured with her son Alex before being diagnosed, says it breaks her heart that she might not be around to see him grow up
However, the pathology results from the hysterectomy showed no signs of cancer, so Katie thought she had the all-clear.
'I started to organise a celebration. But about three weeks later my leg started to ache.'
On January 2, the day she was supposed to return to work, a scan revealed that the cancer had spread and she now had tumours in her lymph nodes and her lungs.
The pain in her legs was caused by one of these tumours pressing on her nerves.
Caught early, the disease is treatable, but there is still a risk to a woman's fertility.
Rachel Bennett, a student of photography at the University of Derby, was diagnosed last December when she was 21.
'I was terrified-because it was all new to me,' she says.
'Before I was diagnosed, I didn't even really know where the cervix was. I'd never heard of HPV and had no idea how you got cervical cancer because I was too young for smear tests.'
Because the disease was caught at an early stage Rachel was eligible for a new fertility-saving surgery called trachelectomy in which only the cervix is removed rather than the whole w****.
'My biggest fear was losing the ability to have children, so I feel lucky, incredibly lucky,' she says.
'However, it is infuriating to know that if I'd had regular smear tests they could have caught the cancer before I would've needed my cervix removed.
'I now have an increased chance of miscarriage and premature birth and I'll have to have a Caesarean. I feel less of a woman because of it.'
Rachel is one of the 'fortunate' ones in that she has kept her fertility and has an excellent prognosis for survival.
But nobody walks away from cancer scot-free - a cancer diagnosis always leaves a legacy of fear in its wake.
'It's always going to be in the back of my mind: "Will the cancer come back? Will it spread?" ' says Rachel. 'It is something that is never going to stop worrying me.'
Quite what impact the decision to postpone the screening age to 25 has on cervical cancer rates won't be known until the figures become available around 2010.
But Professor Shepherd is clear: 'I appreciate that there is a health economics issue here - it will cost money to screen younger women - but I still think it should be a priority.
'Cervical cancer is a preventable disease and catching it early will save lives.'
The August 2008 Issue * Tennis pro Ashley Harkleroad nude * Playboys Olympic Hall of Fame * The Two Coreys Susle Feldman poses * Miss August Kayla Collins * Playboy Interview: Ben Stiller * 20Q with Selma Blair
ladies which do you want first and then second, MONEY THEN LOVE OR LOVE THEN THE MONEY for those who dont understand you prefer the dolla sign first before you love or you would love even if the money dont set proper tell me whats on ur minds a interested to hear money then love or love then money come
[sm]This is just a lil joke to share with the ladies....men if y'all get offended too bad [/sm][spoiler]
Life with men is like a pack of cards. You need a Heart to love him. A diamond to marry him. A club to smash his foolish head in, and a spade to bury the damn evidence!
God knows us women have gone through one of the above emotions....if not all
Ladies..you can best relate to this article I came across...
Dating Don'ts - How Not To Kiss
Locking lips. Making out. Smooching. Kissing. It sounds so pleasant and easy, yet do a little research and you'll soon discover that while everyone may be doing it, few are doing it well.
For your edification, I have rounded up the different varieties of bad kissers and broken them down by the traits they share with members of the animal kingdom:
The Venus Flytrap: "It was like his neck was on a hinge," Sarah relays over c**ktails. "This gave him the ability to open his mouth about six inches." I dated one of these too --his mouth would open so wide that he'd cover my mouth and nose, making it impossible to breathe. And yes, while I realize the Venus Flytrap is not technically an animal, it eats bugs and that's good enough for me.
The Excitable Puppy: I don't know who is telling these boys that there's nothing hotter than a mid-makeout tongue bath, but I heard from a lot of sopping sisters. "He licked from forehead to nose to chin and back again," is how one woman described her first kiss. "Like the way my 80-pound Labrador licks my face. Even though it was my first makeout sesh, I knew my companion was cursed with bad skills."
Your guide to a hot, sizzling summer Best spots for a summer tryst
Monday, July 14, 2008
It's summer, the time to revel in the heat and get all sexy and steamy as you find new ways to make your relationship racy. Clueless? This week All Woman helps you keep your love at the 100 degree level, with some useful little tips that will get you all hot and bothered.
Haven't checked out these places with your lover yet? Now's the time to try:
1. Devon house You will probably have an intense desire for chilly desserts this summer. Sharing an ice cream cone at Devon House can add even more chills in this hot season.
2. Hope Gardens The tall palm trees will suffice to keep the heat away and the lawns are the perfect place to spread a blanket and have a picnic with your significant other.
3. Hellshire beach Not really up for a long drive? Well this is the perfect place to go enjoy the sea breeze together while munching on fish and bammy or festival.
4. Lovers' Leap Watch nature take its course in more ways that one this summer as you spend an evening watching the sunset together with the picturesque view this venue affords you. Let both your significant other and the story of the fate of the two lovers for which the venue is named embrace you, as you become mesmerised by the sheer beauty of this place.
5. Blue Mountain Peak This excursion might prove enjoyable for some. Make it a no holds bar trip as you allow him to help you along on your journey.
6. Wynters Park and Farm in St Catherine Not only will you be able to admire together the many attractions together that this cool oasis have to offer, you can spend time going up the 72 steps of the "horny mountain" as it is commonly called. Have fun racing each other to the top and then catch your breaths together as you win this challenge.
7. Hooves This secluded horse training camp in St Ann's Bay will give both of you the chance to spend time together learning something fun and new. Engage in you own form of horse training with enticing rewards for the winner or spend time cuddling together on a horse.
8. Kingston Waterfront While many people may shy away from downtown, the waterfront at sunset is very romantic and ideal for couples of all ages, especially if you are numbered among the adventurous and are willing to take the chance at love Jamaican style.
9. Strawberry Hill, St Andrew For those with time and extra dollars, travelling the journey to Strawberry Hill is well worth the trip. The view is absolutely spectacular! The seclusion, quiet atmosphere, ambience and great food is worth every dollar. Your lover will be sure to get lost in the moment.
10. Gauchos, St Andrew The intimate setting, friendly staff and wonderful ambience at this restaurant is enough to make you fall in love all over again. - Nadine Wilson and Donna Hussey-Whyte
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Holly Rachel Vukadinovi (born 11 May 1983), who is better known by her stage name of Holly Valance, is an Australian actress and ARIA nominated singer.
Valance's first single as a recording artist was a cover of American singer Stella Soleil's "Kiss Kiss", released in 2002. The song debuted at #1 in both the Australian ARIA and UK Singles Charts charts in April/May 2002. "Kiss Kiss" is, in turn, an English interpretation of the song mark by Turkish superstar Tarkan. The director's cut version of the music video was notable in that Valance appeared to be dancing naked, but in fact she was wearing flesh colored panties but no top. The footage was then digitally retouched adding strategically placed lighting effects. The song was nominated for 4 ARIA awards.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better!!!
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then, Heck no, you can't be friends."
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle; if you feel like he is stringing you along then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think it will get better.
You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you!!!!!
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior;change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important that you are even if he is more educated or in a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man nothing more nothing less!!!
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you allow him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs!!! You should not be the one doing all the bending compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships; there is nothing cute about baggage deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to complete you.
A relationship consists of two whole individuals; look for someone complimentary not supplementary.
Dating is fun even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes, when a man constantly knows where you are and youre always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
ALWAYS REMEMBER
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.
Since late Summer '07, SASHA (5ft.,6in./32B-25-41), based in the DC/MD area, has become one of the few new Models featured in Magazines, Music Videos and the Internet who has become popular very quickly.Just look at her and you will understand why!
SASHA has a sexy 10+ page spread & interview in the current 2nd annual Flavors Issue of SMOOTHGirl Magazine, in bookstores and on newsstands right now. SASHA was also selected #40 on the SMOOTHGirl Top 100 All-Time List in the new Holiday Issue of SMOOTH Magazine (with Deelishis on the cover). SASHA is also Miss November in the new 2008 SMOOTH Magazine Calendar!
SASHA is featured in the Jay-Z All-Star Music Video "Roc Boys", playing in heavy rotation on BET, MTV & MTV 2, Fuse and other Music Video Shows around the country. (Look for SASHA's sexy Red Heels and when Jay-Z says, "Let That Ride Out!"). SASHA is also one of the lead girls in Shaggy's latest video, "Bonafide Girl".
Vida Guerra (born March 19, 1974) is a Cuban-born American model, actress, and singer. Her first notable appearance was in the U.S. edition of FHM magazine in December 2002; since then, she has modeled for many other men's magazines.
Born in Havana, Cuba, Guerra moved with her family to the United States soon after, ending up in the town of Perth Amboy, New Jersey. While growing up, she entered several fashion shows modeling swim wear, and appeared in a few music videos
Ivanka Marie Trump (born October 30, 1981 in New York City, New York) is an American businesswoman and fashion model. She is the daughter of Ivana and Donald Trump and is currently Vice President of Real Estate Development and Acquisitions at the Trump Organization. Before working for her father, Ivanka worked for Forest City Enterprises. Trump joined forces with Dynamic Diamond Corp., a Diamond Trading Company Sightholder, to design and introduce a line of jewelry slated to be unveiled in September 2007 at the opening of the brand's first flagship retail store on Madison Avenue which is called Ivanka Trump. Trump is currently dating Jared Kushner
Men: 1) 94% of men lie about their penis size. According to condom manufacturers, only 6% of men use extra large condoms.
2) The average man is 5 inches long when erect (no matter what you have heard ladies, that's the truth).
3) 80% of American men are circumsized. Even though Pediatrics say it is not necessary.
4) No matter what all the ads say, nothing can make your penis grow but time (most men reach the end of their growth by the early 20's)
5) There is no correlation between penis size and shoe size, hand size, or nose size.
6) Blue balls does exist! It's technically called "prostatic congestion."
7) Only 16% of men shave their privates.
+Some stuff on the ladies+ ------------------------------
1) Only 9% of women around the globe consider themselves "attractive" (20% of British women do). 43% of women use the term "natural", 24% say they have "average" looks, 8% prefer the term "feminine", 7% say they are "good looking", and 7% say they are "cute", and finally only 2% of women say they are "sexy".
2) An estimated 85% of women wear the wrong size bra. 3) 60% of women have had breast implants. 4) 75% of women dont like oral sex 5) 95% of women shave their privates.
+Both+ -------------------------------- 1) Masturbation is healthy for both men and women.
2) 70% of highschoolers have had sex before they have graduated. 27% loose their virginity senior prom night. Only 3% wait until marriage.
3) 95% of men would have sex with a girl after 1 month of dating. Only 10% of women feel this way.
+5 Reasons Why Sex is Good+ --------------------------------------------- 1) It is a good workout. Sex burns about 150 calories every half an hour of it. It will lower your cholesterol and improve breathing circulation.
2) You won't get sick. According to research if you have sex 1-2 times a week you are less likely to get sick.
3) You'll feel happier. You will feel a greater sense of well-being. Women who have more sex were clinically proven to be less depressed than women who dont have sex.
4) Makes you look better - [ problem is, ugly people don`t get any ]. Sex releases hormones in you which make your skin and hair softer and shinier and tone your physique.
5) (The best reason) You will live longer. Studies prove that sex makes you live longer. Men who had sex 1-2 times a week had half the death rate as those who did not indulge themselves at least once a month. It also makes you look younger. If you have sex 3 times a week you may look up to 10 years younger than you really are.
Did You Know? ---------------------------------------- 1) Having sex 3 times a week for 1 year adds up to running 75 miles!!!!
If you don't post this then you will have bad sex for 7 years (who wants that?)
Lucy Katherine Pinder (b. 20 December 1983 in Winchester, Hampshire, England) is a glamour model noted for her large, natural breasts, which have been voted as being "the most beautiful all-natural pair in Britain."
Pinder was spotted by freelance photographer Lee Earle while sunbathing on Bournemouth beach in the summer of 2003; as a result of the photographs taken that day, she signed a professional modeling contract with The Daily Star.
In the 2005 UK edition of the FHM 100 Sexiest Women in the World Lucy was a new entry in the poll and finished 16th overall. She appeared at 35th place in the 2006 poll. She dropped to 92nd position in the 2007 poll, after receiving very little coverage in EMAP-owned magazines such as FHM.
Early in her career, unlike most glamour models, Pinder did not initially pose fully topless; she eventually did so for the weekly UK lads' mag Nuts on 6 April 2007. This was followed with a nude photo set in the August 2007 issue of the monthly magazine Loaded. She also appeared as a Page Three girl in July and August for The Daily Star on a weekly basis.
It has been confirmed that she has re-signed with The Daily Star and also signed a 6 month exclusive topless contract with Nuts.